Hej ti!
Osećam te, čoveče. Nikada nije lako čuti da neko drugi govori o svojim demonima kockanja. Veoma je važno da radite to što radite, otvorite se i razgovarate o tome.
Naravno, većina nas kockarskih kretena je u nekom trenutku izgubila više novca nego što smo mogli priuštiti. To je samo dio igre. A što se tiče mog najgoreg iskustva, izgubio sam put waaaay. Toliko da sam sjeo, ispričao cijeloj svojoj porodici i zbrisao šta se dogodilo. Onda sam sve razbio i počeo da shvatam šta je pošlo po zlu i šta sam mogao da uradim drugačije.
Prvo sam bio kao ti. Željna sam da nađem izlaz bez obzira na sve, ali shvatila sam da me to samo čini tužnim i ljutim. Također sam shvatio da igram samo zato što je zabavno, jer zašto gubiti vrijeme u životu radeći nešto što ni ne voliš?
Tu se polako vratila moja prava ljubav i strast prema kockanju. Preuzeo sam kontrolu nad svojim osećanjima. Moja sreća je počela da se okreće i video sam mogućnosti umesto prepreka. Ponovo sam se zabavljao i to je bila ogromna pobeda, iako sam godinama bio daleko od bankrolla koji sam nekada imao.
Moj najveći savjet za tebe prijatelju: Ako to ne osjećaš, ostavi to. Uradite nešto što će vas izmamiti osmijehom. Odmori se. Preuzmite kontrolu i učite iz grešaka. Svi ih radimo i uvijek ćemo jednom napraviti nove. Jusy nemoj ponavljati isto uvijek iznova, ti si gazda nad sobom!!
Mnogo ljubavi.
Život se sastoji od osmijeha i poljupca, a ne gotovine i besplatnih okretaja.
Hey you!
I feel for you my man. It' s never easy to hear someone else open up about their gambling demons. Its very important tho to do what you are doing, open up and talk about it.
Ofcourse, most of us gambling jerks, has at some point lost more money than we could afford. Thats just part of the game. And as of for my worst experience, I lost way way waaaay to much. So much so that I sat down, told all of my family and grinda what had happend. Then I broke everything down and started to figure out what went wrong and what Ive could have done diffrently.
First of I was like you. Eager to find a way out no matter what, but I realized that only made me feel sad and angry. I also realized that I play just because it is fun, because why waste your time in life doing something you dont even like?
This is where my true love and passion for gambling slowly cameback. I had taken controll over my feelings. My luck started to turn and I saw oppertunitys instead of obsticles. I was having fun again and that was a huge win, eventhough I was a years away from having the bankroll that I once have had.
My biggest tip for you my friend: If you are not feeling it, leave it. Do something that make you smile. Take a break. Take controll and learn from misstakes. We all do them and will always make new once. Jusy dont repeat the same one over and over, you are the boss over yourself!!
Much love.
Life is about smiles and kisses, not cash and freespins.
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